I can’t do this anymore

I can’t do this anymore.


How many times a day do you have that thought?


When Karen (pseudonym) came to my office for her first session that was the first statement out of her mouth. Her second statement was, “Do you know how many times a day I say that?” It’s humiliating, I tell my friends, my parents, my husband, my brother, even my neighbors, “I can’t do this anymore.” And then I keep doing it.


By now I had to ask, “What’s the, this, that you can’t do anymore?”

“Oh.” Well, I was going to say my job, but you know what, I think it’s more than that.

“What else?” I wondered.

“The way I let my husband boss me around, the way I let my kids boss me around, the way I let my boss, boss me around…I can’t do this anymore.”


Ironically, just two months ago Richard (pseudonym) a student in our last “Level 1: The Awakening” training, said the exact same thing.


I can’t do this anymore. I can’t stand my job for another minute, but I’ve been saying that for years. I’ve been in this same job going on 15 years and for the last 14, I’ve been saying I can’t do this anymore. My life is going by. That’s why I came to this class. I want out and I don’t know how to get out. I want you to teach me how.”


Both Karen and Richard grew up in families where being criticized, ridiculed and verbally abused was the norm. Both vowed they would never treat other people that way. And they succeeded. They don’t treat other people that way. The tragedy is they treat themselves that way. They direct the criticism, ridicule and verbal abuse to themselves. Both, subconsciously recreated the same environment they vowed never to participate in. Both knew they were unnecessarily treating themselves that way and neither knew how to change it.


Can you relate so far?  If you can, and you can’t do this anymore, it may be helpful to know there IS a way to get out of this painful cycle. This is a learned pattern and because it’s a learned pattern, it’s also possible to learn a different pattern. Because there is currently NO alternative neurologically programmed pattern, YOU CAN’T change this one by yourself! You can’t read about it in a book or article, you can’t talk your way out of it. However, you can neurologically re-pattern this through body/mind psychology and Transpersonal Energy Healing. You have an important purpose, much to contribute, a joyful life to live and in order to do so, the self-torture can and must be stopped. A NEW pattern can be learned.


If you are at your wit’s end, if you have reached your limit, if you can’t do this anymore than you need to know that twice a year there is a roadway OUT.  Twice a year happens to fall this coming Thursday, August 20 to 23rd with “Level 1: The Awakening.” NO previous training is required, just a desire to “not do this anymore.” To READ MORE about the class click here, http://lionheartinstitute.com/what-we-offer/the-awakening-level-1/ or if you’re ready NOW, and wish to register NOW, call 818-509-1800. Class starts this Thursday. Are YOU supposed to be there?

Laura Fineby Lionheart Founder, Laura L Fine